I can honestly say that I feel that I have accomplished a lot, but more importantly is that I did have so many experiences that I'm happy to be where I am now as a woman, wifey, and mother.
I think everyone starts to break out on their own at 18 and go to college. Women I would assume marry have babies by 24 and men by maybe 27. At least I can reference that from my parents expect my life to be somewhat the same.
My point is not everyone's life goes that way. I can't judge and I don't know why people have things happen in their life. But I have been starting to see a trend (especially in my generation) where I see women out on the town. Like frequently! Not like every now and then just to kick it with the girls but like enough to where they set aside money and make it part of their budget. lol.
So what?? Have they not gotten it out of their system?? Here are some ideas of why women my age are still out there trying to party or brawling:
- They got pregnant early in life
- They got married early in life
- Probably dated really fast, got married, had kids, and divorced
- Still single and haven't found the one
I can't help but think to myself, "I'm glad I'm not one of them and I have a great man I come home to." Seriously, sometimes I go out to clubs to realize what I got. And I see those young girls and think that I use to be one of them. lol. I can't lie I use to be that girl out in the middle of the dance floor doing the latest moves, showing off, looking for hot guys and making others jealous. lol. But so done with that. But I can say I had soo much fun doing all of it. And as I get older I don't every have to be curious about what it would have been like. Been there, done that!! As of now I don't even really dress to impress or put on makeup at home. If I do try to impress anyone it's my man. That's all that matters.
What I'm trying to say is that maybe these girls didn't do that and now they feel like they have the money, time or now single they have to put their game on and looking for fun.
If my man left me and I became single again right now, I would probably be at the club looking for another man. I have met every man I have dated at the club even Chris. BUT there is a certain way to find the right man! Maybe in another post I'll list my Searching for the Right Man list according to NatNat. I guess my priorities are just different.
Anyways I have my fun, lost my sense of innocence but a matured into a greater woman!
Here is my growth my the girlfriends that I have great single day memories with.
My Bestie from High School - Whitney
Me fulfilling my dream of dancing in Hawaii
My girl Irene!!
My Sexy Mamacita - Laurita
My Sorority Pledge sisters
Peace to being Single, I'm settling down
Me & Him - With baby on the way
My Family 2011