Wife..Women..Friend

All I can say this is the realest poem about 

majority of men in my life.

It time to upgrade to that 

one man to be my husband.

Done Pledging!! Neophytes!!

These are my girlz!! We are all different I have come to love ya'll!!

We are Beta Kappa of Beta Beta Gamma!! BK BABY!!

Started with 18 and ended with the most Beautiful and strong women.

We taking over!!

And we one Greek Week. Ya!!

Congratz to My SISTERS!! We did it!!!

All My Women Stand UP!!

Beta Beta Gamma

Well just to update you on what's going on in my life

I decided to pledge for the Beta Beta Gamma Sorority.

That's bout all I can tell you. But I'm excited!!!

This will probably the only post that I'm going to do for some time.

Just pray for me!!

Pledges Beta Kappa

BiG Sister Nicole

Irene's BDAY!!!

Okay so this is REALLY Late Post. But ya.

It was my Best Girlfriend's Birthday on Sept. 5.

We celebrated it at the Living Room. Hella Crazy.

Girls looking Fly and getting down. Have a blessed year Irene!!

STUDYING!!!

So this Semester I've been staying on top of my classes.

I found a great spot in the Sinclair Library where there's tables on the

second floor that are outside and face out towards Waikiki.

I was there for 4 hours reading.

As you can see I have my textbook, notebook with the color coded notes,

my planner, binder, and DEFINITELY the IPod.

EDUCATE YOURSELF!!

I was listening to Hawaiian music that way I couldn't sing to anything while trying to read.

O.J. Can kill ya

WOW!! Substitute for Butt implants..LOL

You can find Butt Booster at your local ladies store.
WOW!! You noticed how it is a light bright on the package.
I just wonder what they guy would say after he takes her home and
her booty all of a sudden flat!! Hahaha!!

Only in Hawaii (808)

Only in Hawaii is a fun section.

Here is instead of a Big Breakfast Platter there is Eggs, rice and SPAM.
Don't forget the Aloha Shoyu for the rice. YUMMY!!!

Liquid...Full Moon Yacht Party..Starting Fall right!!

Hanging out the window. Let's set sail already!!!

My New Fit for the night. Teal dress. Gold heels. Curled Hair. MAC Makeup
Night with my people: Priceless

The Yacht: 3 Levels, 2 Djs, 2 Bands, 1 awesome night

Ms. Irene aka my girl aka my lover. lol.. Starting the fall BIG!!

Paul Moor. The Mastermind behind the whole event. It was very different and fun.

Glen..First Ever to make Promotions an actual Business from New York.
My Mentor from Event Attainment.

The whole crew on the yacht. Colby. Joey. Ryan. Kenny. Darrah. Irene. Nat.

Shop to Party!!

So I started shopping for my whole outfit for Friday's Yacht party.
Dress: check
Shoes: check
Hair: have to do day of
Make up: check! (MAC Makeup by my new Artist Bob. Thanks)
Can't show you the final outfit till friday!

Wow I'm so excited to go to this event!! I got my whole team going...

You don't even know how we roll!!

Obama has Left the Building!!

Well Obama left this past Friday to get back to campaigning.
But it was fun knowing that he was just down the street at the school he grew up.
And that his family resides here in Hawaii.
Definitely need to go and vote for OBAMA!!

Wow. Obama can bodysurf at Sandys. That's sexy.

New Place.

I feel so blessed because I just found out that I'm able to get this very nice apartment in Waikiki. I thank God for blessing me and settling down my worries. That means BEACH EVERYDAY!!! Here's some pics. I probably won't move in till next week. Going to need a house warming party!!

Uh Oh...

I got a camera charger!!
Okay bout to put some new pics up on here.
Going to have pics from all my adventures. Yay!!

Taking it back..Have to give props

Okay. This is one of my ultimate love song classic with two most talented R&B Singers. Where are real talented singers?? I have to give props where it is due. And Luther Vandross and Mariah Carey have always had classic hits and incredible voices to where you can just feel it in your spine. Just thought I'd take it back.

Good Good

Dedicated to my ladies that keep they men.
And they got it like that.
This song is for my babes coming back home.
I ain't worried bout him.
Love my girl Ashanti

Love this song..finally the video!

I love this song. I use to dance to this song all over the store at Soular which is where I worked at last year. This is dedicated to all the men that I miss in my life. lol. too many. Kinda glad they gone. Less drama real talk!!

Hitting the Gym

Okay...so been hella stressed lately and real busy with everything. But I do recognize that it's very important to keep your body healthy. So I had my first orientation with the trainer yesterday. Found out my body fat percentage (not going to tell you..kinda embarrassed) but learned what I need to work on. All I know is that I want to tone up and get more flexible. Goal is to lose ten pounds and maintain it. Going to start up once I move into my new place.

Obama is in the HOUSE!!

Eating some shave ice...yummy.

Have to give shouts out to Obama who was born and raised here in Hawaii...my roommates missed him at the store by 5 mins. But my other friend Joey was able to check out his rally. Obama for President!!

Obama greeted the cheering crowd with a loud "Aloha! How's everybody doing today? Howzit!"

Obama, and his wife Michelle, were joined at the rally by U.S. Sen. Daniel Akaka, U.S. Rep. Neil Abercrombie, Mayor Mufi Hannemann and Hawaii Democrat Party Chairman Brian Schatz.

He praised Hawaii and told how he explains to people how the state has affected his character and politics.

"I try to explain to them something about the aloha spirit. I try to explain to them this basic idea that we all have obligations to each other, that we're not alone, that if we see somebody who's in need we should help," he said.

Obama said "most importantly, that when you come from Hawaii, you start understanding that what's on the surface, what people look like, that doesn't determine who they are.

"And that the power and strength of diversity, the ability of people from everywhere, whether they're black or white, whether they're Japanese-American or Korean-American or Filipino-American or whatever they are, they are just Americans, that all of us can work together and all of us can join together to create a better country.

"It's that spirit, that I'm absolutely convinced, is what America is looking for right now."

Obama throwing up the Shaka!

Party on the Sea!!

RELAXATION!!

Okay I've never been so stressed and overwhelmed in my life. I'm not even going to list what I need to accomplish. But I sure plan on visiting family and going to the beach this weekend. Ya BREAKFAST AT IHOP with Aunty and Uncle!!

Love & Life

Okay my Ladies...
I don't what it is but I think we think men are what brings pain to our lives.
If it's not the man that hurt you, it's the man that you are with now.
We can't let go of all the pain and heartache that they have given us.
We blame what they did to us as the reasoning behind our actions and thoughts.
I know so many women just crying out right now.
We just can't let it go.

Well I'm here to tell you, you need to let it go.
You need to forgive them, not for them but for yourself.
When you forgive them, they no longer have power over you.
I know it's even harder when you have just ended things,
And you start to reflect on everything.
Then when you are lonely and you feel like you need a man,
That's when you must learn to build your character.
We as women need to recognize that need to handle ours.
We cannot let emotions overtake our lives.
And we can no longer put blame or excuses for our actions.
We need to take Responsibility and become Bitches.

Everything is a season.
Give it time.
And a new season will come and you have to plant new seeds.
Maybe build new relationships. Learn from your old ones.
Love is the only emotion that creates so much joy and pain.
Sometimes we have to take chances and have faith.
Don't let your past relationships hold you from your future.
Believe me. I'm taking a chance on love.
May we all be blessed with love and appreciation.
And LOVE LIFE!!

New Friends...

It's very interesting to me and I'm pretty sure everyone else,
but when it comes to friends, it's never certain.
You think you know people, but as you grow and they grow
your relationship can change as well.
Sometimes people turn against you.
Sometimes they leave you for other people.
Sometimes you get distance between you and you grow apart.
Sometimes your life gets so busy you just don't talk as often.
Sometimes your friendship has to end because they hurt you.
Sometimes your friends don't have same feelings about situations as you do.
Sometimes friends will always remain in your heart.
Sometimes you get to see each other every now and then.

I've moved from Canada to Arizona to Hawaii. I've had alot of friends come and go. Some people I've lost respect for and decided to let them go. But other than that I try my best to be kind to everyone. If they don't want to like me because they don't want to get to know me, than that's fine with me. I want to say that I have this many best friends but that I don't even know. But over the struggles of my life I've come to learn the only people I can count on as my friends for life is my family and God. Life goes on with phases. I always continue to make new friends and cherish those that choose to appreciate my friendship. Much love to those that stick and stay.

As for this new Fall season, I know that I'm going to make new friendships for my new adventures....

Flash Back!!

So had to do a SHOUT OUT!!! to my team back in AZ. This is a small flash back to earlier this summer when I got to go home. From left to right: Kia, Whitney, Hope, Justin, and Smokey. Thank you so much for come out to see me. I swear our lil group gets smaller and smaller. But you are so amazing. I can't wait to come back and see you again. You ladies need to turn 21 already!! LOL. Mad love.

Finding a home...

Okay I've decided to actually and FINALLY move off campus. It doesn't make sense when my dorm costs almost $600 and I have to share a room when I can find a place with my own room for about the same price or an extra hundred dollars. So we shall see what happens...

Yay!!! It's that time again!! Olympics!!

I'm so excited for the Summer 2008 Olympics. I'm such a nerd when it comes to it. The whole excitement of the world uniting...yes!! LOL. But anyways...Well when it comes to the Olympics I cheer for Canada (that's where I grew up) for the winter and USA for the summer. But really I cheer for both.

I love watching gymnastics, swimming, running, beach volleyball, fencing, and anything that I can catch on T.V. I'm thinking that it actually starts tomorrow in China cause they are like a day and a half ahead of us. Interesting. I wonder how this is going to work for us in the US?? Well everyone have fun watching the games!! Don't forget to watch the ceremonies...

Watch Out!

This baby is going to be a Ladies Man so ya'll need to watch out.

It says "Major Cutie" which he is. Had to show some baby love on here!!

At Pipeline

My girl Panama's Finest! wit me at Pipeline. She always fly head to toe!!
















So this is in "The (Black) Room" at Pipeline where I am basically at every Friday Night for Foreplay Fridays with 102.7 Da Bomb. This was a fun night with the ladies. We rock two areas on the floor. Right beside the DJ booth and on the stairs on the island.

One question...Do you think I should cut my hair?? It's way too long for me. I can't even style it too much.

To My Ladies...

Okay. So last summer when I was at home with my mother we were talking about relationships. So told me one day when my parents where not very happy with each other that my step dad got this book for her. He thought she would take it offensively because of the title. Which she did at first, but then she started to read it. She ended up recommending it to me and letting me borrow it.

So for my ladies that want to be the Baddest Bitches in town because you have become to much of a "Nice Girl" you need to check this book out. Or you just in a relationship or going into one I highly recommend this book and Sherry Argov's other book "Why Men Love Bitches"

Personal Life

Okay when it comes to guys I'm very "STINGY" as Ginuwine puts it. I sometimes like to make it known that I'm with someone very publicly. I mean with the whole myspace with pictures and title. But after going through so much pain and struggles with trying to be all over a guy, I've come to realize that I don't need that hurt on myself any more. So I've decided to keep my personal life private just like Beyonce. Lol. (my Idol) So if you ask if I'm with someone you could probably just read it off me without asking.

With getting very involved with events and radio trying to make it on my Grind, so I'm assuming that I will say that I have a man regardless if I do or not. Personal life should be kept personal. And when the time comes and you know where you stand on a relationship then it will come out publicly. You can't rush into something worth having. <3

Story of the Week. "From Warrior to Gladiator"

I wanted to introduce the Story of the Week. I want it to involve something significant and interesting. It could be about people or events. So this week I came across an article in Midweek which is one of Hawaii's newspapers about the Gladiator Toa. His story is inspiring especially to Polynesians that are trying to make it BIG. He shows his true character of being persistent with his dream.

http://www.midweek.com/content/story/theweekend_coverstory/tanoai_reed/


Here's a small clip of the article.

From Warrior to Gladiator

For years Tanoai Reed regretted quitting the UH football program, but now his show biz gamble is paying off for him and his family.

....We had no money. We were on food stamps. I rarely saw an extra dollar. I was on a football scholarship for college. This was my first real job.

“I was supposed to go back to football camp for my senior year, but they told me that they could use me for the rest of the movie for continuity. I stuck out because I was so big. So I did the math with my fingers and I thought, oh, I’m going to be a millionaire. So I stayed. But that wasn’t the case.”

After filming of Waterworld ended in L.A., Reed found himself alone with no family around and no job.

“I was like, ‘OK, now what do I do?,’” he says."I was waiting for these guys to call me, but reality was that in Hawaii I was a big fish in a small pond, but in L.A. I’m a small nobody.

“I didn’t know how to hustle as a stuntman. I didn’t have a head-shot. They didn’t tell me that part of the business.”

Reed ended up buying a truck,that he lived out of for about five months, and worked as a bouncer at some of the nightclubs in Hollywood.

After a couple of years and feeling “kind of lost,” Reed decided to move back to Hawaii.

“I was detailing cars and living pretty much homeless for a little bit,” remembers Reed. “I was living out of a van at a used car dealership in Mapunapuna for about two months. And I was like, ‘wow, this sucks. I can’t do this.’

“I felt like my life wasn’t going anywhere. For a good two, three years, I was really regretting my choice of leaving football.And then my father, Leroy, who is a team-ster in the movie industry, was working in San Francisco on Nash Bridges, and he called me up. He heard I was struggling and invited me to get my teamster license and work for him as a driver.

check on the link to read the whole story!!

Fanny Pack

Okay!! So I don't have much time to watch T.V. but when I was eating lunch I saw what I think was last night's program of America's Best Dance Crew. I don't have much else then to say that you need to watch this clip of Fanny Pack's remake of Missy Elliot's "Get your Freak On" They did so AWESOME!!! Missy loved the performance and so did all the Judges. Check it out!!!

It's AUGUST!!!

Dang. Just the sound of August makes me realize that I only have less then a month of summer. Then it's back to Fall semester with new freshman and other new people. Well it also means that we are done just over half the year...And what have you done to be GREAT in 2008. I know we all make New Years Resolutions. So have you finished some of them or even started working on them?? If not you can always start right now. Just think about it. Cause I'm just getting started!!

The 48 Laws of Power

Tonight I just finished another book. I read alot of self improvement books. I believe that there are universal laws that people never learn. Educating yourself with more knowledge is more Power. Some of the men that I have dated that I really have come to respect have told me that they have read this book. And felt like I needed to understand where they are coming from. This book was very intriguing to me. I felt it was very masculine but as a woman you still need to adapt it to your life. I know that I will keep rereading the book until I can understand it and apply it to my life. This book is not for the faint at heart. It's intense. Next book I want to get is The Art of Seduction also by Robert Greene.

Polo In Paradise

So my friend Paul Moor who works with me at the Top of Waikiki is an Event Producer. So today I went to go check out his weekly event. It was very fascinating to see a real Polo game. You know you only see them on the Ralph Lauren shirts. LOL. But definitely going to get their earlier to watch the games and also mingle with more people and get some food. Here's the info and the website.

WE ARE DANCING ON THE BEACH AT POLO!

Year after year, the Mokuleia polo field is voted the most beautiful in the world.

Each week we produce a full day of entertainment starting at 1:30pm and ending with everyone dancing at sunset.

We have a bar, a great little restaurant and even a cigar store right there.

July and August we have international matches against Mexico, Argentina and Chile The games are real fast and always dangerous!

SO WHY HAVEN'T YOU GOTTEN THERE YET?

Better hurry...the season ends September 21st!!!

Good Book

Definitely great book about what goes out on the streets.
I didn't put this book down for two days straight.
I hope that you can check it out.

"Ghetto-born, Winter is the young, wealthy daughter of a prominent Brooklyn drug-dealing family. Quick-witted, sexy, and business minded, this teenage female hustler knows and loves the streets like the curves of her own body. But when a cold wind blows her life in a direction she never expected, her street smarts and seductive skills are put to the test of a lifetime."