Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Love Notes: Time together

So my life is exciting right now. But I've also noticed that all my girlfriends are gone or extremely busy. And sometimes I feel that I don't see anyone anymore. Kinda sad. But it's okay. I keep myself busy with all the homework I have to do. Lots of reading about US Women's History, Conflict Management and Family Communication. But for some reason yesterday I was not only busy with reading but also making phone calls. I had to talk to my dad and catch up, then my sorority sisters.
By the time I got off the phone, my man was off again to his evening class. When I had to wake him up from his nap he said, "You didn't pay any attention to me the whole time I was home." Well at first he was focused on his music before I decided to call my dad, then while I was talking to him he asked "Are you going to spend time with me?" My first move should have told my dad that I would call him back in a little bit so that I could lay down with my man for just an hour or so. Why do I say this? Because that's what my man does for me. When he is on the phone with even his mother, he gets off the phone to hang out with me just for a few minutes or even to say bye before I go to school. Sometimes because he's a man I assume he doesn't care to spend time with me. But he's not just any man, he's my man. He does extremely care to spend time with me and our baby Beautiful (even though she's in my tummy, we include her). He is very considerate about my schedule and being home rather than hanging with the guys. And I appreciate it more than he knows. We are a growing family that are there for each other and just love being in each other's presence is all that matters.

Believe me...if you know what I had to do and deal with to be with this man, you would be just as shock as I am to tell me he wanted me to pay attention to him. I even still get butterflies that he grabs and holds my hand when we walk together, IN PUBLIC. lol.

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